IF you feel stuck right now, You’re not alone.

Imagine

If dating felt like self-care.

If you could banish self-limiting beliefs and be irresistible to the right sort of people.

If you had a clear plan of when, where and how to find the best relationship of your life.

It’s all possible. You just have to do the work first.

“What work?” you ask?

The work that your friends can’t do and a therapist doesn’t get… but a former-matchmaker turned dating coach does.


When I was stuck…

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A few years back, I was in a toxic relationship. I made tons of excuses, stuffed my needs away and stuck around far too long.

I felt numb and hopeless. I was ashamed to tell anyone about my situation because I knew I was accepting less than I deserved.

Meanwhile, I was a top matchmaker at the largest firm in the U.S. Making “love” happen was literally my job.

There was a huge disconnect.

When I finally found the courage to leave this relationship, I didn’t need to be set up by a matchmaker (I saw that matchmaking didn’t work out long-term for my clients), my friends didn’t have helpful advice and my therapist wasn’t as action oriented as I wanted in my love life.

Date Coaching became the long-term solution I needed to heal from my self-limiting beliefs, discern what I actually wanted and build a strategy to find it.

This work subsequently transformed the dating lives of hundreds of my clients, helping them find soul-quenching dates and mapping out the path to the best relationship of their lives.

I want the same for you.

Introducing

The Brazen Breakthrough

A three month commitment to kickstart your dating life with customized one-on-one coaching, community support and tactical matchmaker strategy.

 

What’s included

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One-On-One

Hour-long sessions so you can bust down the walls of your fears and self-limiting beliefs to date with irresistible confidence and ease.

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Date Feedback System

With this guide, every date gets better. Keep track of your dating progress and supercharge your matchmaking knowledge.

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Group Coaching

Join a dedicated group of women who are committed to dating intentionally, who are there to uplift and celebrate the amazing work you’re doing.

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Weekly Homework

With weekly assignments, reading homework and next steps sent to you, you’ll have the accountability necessary to make the change you desire, leading to big results.

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Dating Profile Lab

In this 30 minute power session, we’ll refine every aspect of your dating profile, dating app usage and messaging to help you attract only the right dates your way.

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Office Hours

Bi-weekly check-in calls to get answers to all your messaging, swiping and first date questions with other Brazen clients.

Top Q & A

1. Who is The Brazen Breakthrough right for? +

This experience was built for single women in the U.S. who are sick of soul-sucking swiping and are ready to build a new dating reality for themselves.

We're for women who are into self-reflection AND taking action, who want to prioritize self-care and fulfillment, especially in their dating lives.

2. What's a dating coach anyway? +

I'm not into "rules."

I hate conventional dating wisdom.

What I do is more than a profile makeover or short term fix.

After working with hundreds, I created a coaching system of reflective work meets tactical strategy, so that you can become your own expert matchmaker, irresistible to the kind of dates who make you come alive.

The love life you want is possible. And it’s my purpose to help you bring it to life.

3. But dating apps suck. Why is this investment worth it? +

You know what sucks? Conventional dating wisdom. You're a unique, awesome woman, and you deserve a custom dating solution tailored to you.

The truth is that even though we have more tools than ever to date, the dating landscape has never been harder to navigate.

Whether you’re anxious that the sort of relationship you desire isn't possible or you're feeling frustrated by the time-suck of swiping, you're not alone. I've been there and know what it feels like to be at the end of your rope with dating.

This work saved me from an unfulfilling dating life, helped me banish my self-limiting beliefs and ultimately led me to my partner, Chris. This program can do the same for you.

4. Do I have to use dating apps to do The Brazen Breakthrough? +

It's totally possible for you to meet the love of your life in person. Dating apps can be super stressful, but they're also the most accessible resource to find dates outside of your social circle.

The Brazen Breakthrough will help you craft a dating strategy to know where, when and how to search to bring you closer to finding your best relationship yet.

Most clients find that their confidence skyrockets after completing this program, and that means meeting more romantic matches IRL than they thought possible.

5. Why should I do The Brazen Breakthrough instead of hiring a matchmaker? +

I was one of the top matchmakers at the largest firm in the country. But I broke up with the industry because I wanted to go deeper with my clients for a long-term solution- one where they felt fulfilled by their dating life and found a fulfilling relationship as a result.

Once you work with me, finding a great date becomes easy and you'll streamline your process to find your best relationship ever.

6. What if I don't have time to focus on this? +

If you don’t have time to invest in creating a more joyful, purposeful, fulfilling dating life, then maybe you don’t have time for a relationship. Change takes commitment, and this program demands just that.

However, our coaching is the quickest, clearest way to achieve the kind of results that will get you out on more exciting dates and in more fulfilling, secure relationships.

7. Why do I need to pay for a good dating life? +

Think of me like a trainer to reach your romantic goals.

Say you want to learn all of Beyoncé's Coachella 2018 dance set. You could watch that Netflix special on repeat, read tutorials and practice alone in your room all day long. But without expert help, accountability and real-time support, you're unlikely to make it happen. Let's face it, that task would be completely overwhelming alone.

OR you could work with a trainer who was dedicated to YOUR goals, YOUR personality and YOUR learning style. An expert who could break down that huge goal down into bite-sized next steps. With that accountabiltiy, expert help and real-time support, you'll reach your goal.

The Brazen Breakthrough is like bringing on a trainer for your dating life. Once you invest intentional time into this area, incredible things happen.

8. When does enrollment close for The Brazen Breakthrough? +

Enrollment closes on June 21st at 8pm est.

9. How much time does this take? +

We recommend women who are ready for this program invest about 2-3 hours per week on average into scheduled sessions and homework (not including time on great dates:).

The Brazen breakthrough Works.

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“I thought working with a dating coach was a crazy idea…

And I was skeptical about dating in general. Then I met Lily.

Lily helped me feel safe to open up, courageous in asking for what I want and secure in my dating strategy. She brought a sense of playfulness and pleasure to my dating life, which I didn't know was possible.

Working with Lily has done so much for not just my dating life, but my life in general. Especially if this is your first time thinking about working with a dating coach, she will help you for sure!”- Yuko, NYC

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“For the first time in my life, I'm excited about my dating prospects.

Lily has helped me demystify the dating process and to approach it with a much healthier and more optimistic viewpoint. I’m excited about my dating life, rather than dreading the process of trying to meet likeminded people.”- Heather, Orlando

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“Lily is the reason I’m in the best relationship of my life.

Before working with her, I was going on dates from the apps and not really connecting with people.

While working with Lily, I realized I was looking way too closely at the pictures and didn’t give guys a chance.

The advice she gave me was the reason I went on a date I otherwise wouldn’t have gone on, and it opened me up to this relationship.”- Olivia, NYC

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“It’s so worth it!

Lily has unique insight into modern dating and an amazing ability to help me channel intention and care that I already put into other areas of my life. Working with Lily is kind of like working out; once you do, you start seeing the benefits in many parts of your life."- Rachel, NYC

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“Before working with Lily, I hated dating.

I wasn’t meeting anyone I was in to, and I was not sure anything could change that.

Most of my friends are in relationships, and it can be very isolating because they don’t understand what I’m going through.

This experience gave me concrete tools and tips, and I left actually feeling powerful and secure in my dating life."- Estrella, NYC

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“Date Brazen coaching is a long term bolster.

The content is valuable- and it’s powerful thing to hear that, yes, dating can work, you just have to try- and here’s how. This coaching reinforces what’s great about me and gives me tools to bring that into my dating life.”- Jessica, St. Louis

 

What’s it cost?

This summer, get your dating life together with the clarity and control you deserve.

3 monthly payments

$249/month

(price increases to

$279/month on Monday)

  • 3 One-on-One Sessions

  • 3 Group Coaching Sessions

  • 1 Dating Profile Lab

  • Weekly Email Sessions

  • Date Feedback System

  • 6 Office Hours Calls

 

PAY IN-FULL

$670 total

(Price increases to

$750 total on Monday)

  • 3 One-on-One Sessions

  • 3 Group Coaching Sessions

  • 1 Dating Profile Lab

  • Weekly Email Sessions

  • Date Feedback System

  • 6 Office Hours Calls

 
 

100% Risk-Free

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I want you to feel running-through-fields-awesome about your investment, so here's my guarantee:

If after 2 months you don't feel we've delivered on our promise, we'll happily refund half of your money.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Only those who have engaged fully in the program for those two months will be eligible for a refund. We've seen that this program works best for those who are ready to fully dive in. We'll ask for you to show up to your one-on-one sessions, Dating Profile Labs and Group Coaching Sessions and to share your completed assignments to make sure you gave it a shot. We'll also ask what didn't work for you so we can improve.

The Brazen Breakthrough isn't for everyone, and I am pumped to serve the women who will most benefit from this program.

 

Who’s right for this program?

You seek support.

Those women who are most most successful in The Brazen Breakthrough are ready to ask for help and get support. I’ve got your back every step of this journey.

You’re ready.

Dating deeper means doing the work to get there. This program requires dedication and time. The best results come to women who are ready to dive in, ask for help and do the work.

You value reflection.

You seek help with other areas of personal development- trainers, therapists and/or coaches. You're always striving to become your best.

You're a go-getter.

You like going after big dreams, you like trying new things, you’re unafraid to take a leap of faith when the outcome is worth it.

 

You deserve a clear path to the best relationship of your life.

Get started now.

Pay Month to Month

$249/month

  • 3 One-on-One Sessions

  • 3 Group Coaching Sessions

  • 1 Dating Profile Lab

  • Weekly Email Sessions

  • Date Feedback System

  • 6 Office Hours Calls

 

PAY IN-FULL

$670 total

  • 3 One-on-One Sessions

  • 3 Group Coaching Sessions

  • 1 Dating Profile Lab

  • Weekly Email Sessions

  • Date Feedback System

  • 6 Office Hours Calls