THE FEMINIST GUIDE TO BREAKING DUMB DATING RULES AND FINDING LOVE

From Your Favorite Dating Coach, Lily Womble

YOUR DATING LIFE HAS BEEN TRAPPED IN THE PATRIARCHAL DARK AGES, AND NOW IT’S TIME TO GET UNSTUCK.

​​It’s not your fault that dating sucks, that the Patriarchy has screwed up how we find love.

From addictive dating apps that were built like slot machines, to advice like “Stop being so picky!” (aka “don’t trust yourself”), to single women being treated as less than because of their relationship status, dating can be a hot soup of existential exhaustion.

In Thank You, More Please feminist dating coach and founder of Date Brazen, Lily Womble, flips patriarchal dating on its head, and challenges you to ask for and get what you want. Lily was one of the top matchmakers in the U.S. who set up 399 dates, but in her personal life, she was settling constantly in toxic situationships.

After growing up in the deep south, being a late bloomer who hadn’t had a long term relationship, being labeled “too much,” her deepest fear was that she wasn’t qualified for the love and partnership she craved.

She needed to learn how to never settle again and how to attract love on her terms. These exact steps are what took Lily to a confident and joyful-as-fuck dating life that attracted the love of her life. Then, she broke up with matchmaking to become a feminist dating coach and help hundreds of women do the same.

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This proven, feminist framework written by an intersectional dating coach will help you create an epic love life, one that attracts more than you thought possible (more please!).

She includes tips on how to:

  • Ditch the self-blamey, rigid dating advice and start trusting your gut

  • Embrace and celebrate your singleness

  • Own all your relationship preferences and be powerfully picky

  • Date like a feminist and attract the partnership you crave

  • And more!

A hilarious, feminist, no BS guide with a joyful, unconventional formula, Thank you More Please will show you how to ask for exactly what you want and find love exactly as you are.

ENDORSEMENTS

  • "A laugh-out-loud funny, heartwarming, and vulnerable book perfect for any woman who has ever feared that she's 'too much.'

    Lily is a treasure trove of practical and confidence-building tips. I'm a gleefully married woman, but this book actually made me wish I could date again so I could put this brilliant advice to use!"

    - Vanessa Marin, author of New York Times Bestselling Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life

  • "If you want modern, real, authentic and practical advice on how to handle dating in this new digital age, look no further than this book!

    Lily nails it with so much relatable, spot-on guidance — I think everyone who reads this will walk away feeling smarter, more confident and encouraged."

    – Faith Jenkins, author of Sis, Don’t Settle

  • "Thank You, More Please is a must-have guide to dating for any single, feminist human.

    Lily Womble insightfully untangles all the ways the patriarchy has screwed up how we find love, and shares a step-by-step process to creating the joyful, powerful love life you deserve. We all tend to make dating Very Serious Business but Lily brings a sense of humor, compassion, and lightness to this topic that helps it all seem much more manageable and, dare I say it, even fun?! Every single person wanting to find love should read this book!”

    - Kara Loewentheil, host of the top-ranked UnF*ck Your Brain podcast and author of Take Back Your Brain: How A Sexist Society Gets In Your Head - and How to Get It Out.

  • “Lily Womble is the dating coach you need in your life!

    She is supportive, empathetic, wise —and hilarious too! Her empowering, feminist approach to dating will give you the confidence to ask for more in every area of your life.”

    - Farnoosh Torabi, Author of A Healthy State of Panic

  • "Thank You, More Please is the dating manifesto so many of us (myself included) need. Full of practical, seriously entertaining, and insightful advice.

    Lily Womble invites us to stop wondering if we're ""too much,"" or doing something ""wrong,"" and instead focus on creating a joyful, non-soul-sucking dating experience for ourselves. I'm following Lily's sage advice myself because it's just that damn good and I know you will want to as well! It's a must-read for anyone ready to heal from their past and take center stage in their own love story."

    - Tara Schuster, author of Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies and Glow in the F*cking Dark

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Hi, I’m Lily!

I was one of the top matchmakers in the U.S., but after setting up hundreds of dates, I realized that the answer to finding love was much deeper than a setup, and that the way we are taught to date is still stuck in the patriarchal dark ages. I founded my company, Date Brazen, in 2018 and have since helped hundreds create love lives that are epic, settle-proof, and joyful-as-hell with my intersectional feminist approach.

Thank You, More Please includes everything you need to create a confident, joyful-as-hell dating life that makes the right relationship inevitable. The exact steps inside these pages are not only what helped my clients, they are exactly what I used to feel incredible in my dating life AND attract my now-husband, Chris.

You can follow along on TikTok and Instagram @datebrazen and tune into my Top 4 Relationship Podcast- The Date Brazen Podcast to binge over 160 episodes of feminist, step-by-step dating advice.

The BONUS When You Pre-Order

Thank You, More Please

The Thank You, More Please CLUB

As an exclusive member of this Club, you get:

✨ Monthly Live Trainings with Lily to kickstart your most joyful, magnetic dating life before the book even comes out! (and recordings so you don’t miss a beat)

Our Live Trainings include:

  • How to attract more with the Thank You, More Please Challenge

  • Getting more picky with your Essence-Based Prefs to find love

  • Create your dating crew: Engage your Co-conspirators to find more

  • How the hell to meet someone in-person this year

✨ Fillable Workbooks on each monthly topic to get you taking action + attracting more immediately.

✨ A Date Brazen Podcast listening guide so you have personalized advice from Lily for any dating situation, freakout, or question.

When your single and coupled friends have this book, you will have co-conspirators for your dating life IMMEDIATELY. That’s why we created more bonuses when you order books for your community.


If you pre-order 3 copies for you and your co-conspirators…

You get access to the TYMP Club AND a $200 discount to our signature program, The Brazen Breakthrough.

If you pre-order 5 copies for you and your co-conspirators…

You get access to the TYMP Club, a $200 discount to our signature program, The Brazen Breakthrough, AND a 1:1 coaching call to propel you forward with a Breakthrough coach.

Claim your free gifts!

STEP ONE

Order Your Copy!

Click below to place your order then make sure to come back for Step 2!

STEP two

Claim Your Freebies!

When you pre-order 1 book, you get:
exclusive access to the TYMP club!

When you pre-order 3-4 books, you get:
access to the TYMP Club AND a $200 discount to our signature program, The Brazen Breakthrough.

When you pre-order up to 5+ books, you get:
access to the TYMP Club, a $200 discount to our signature program, The Brazen Breakthrough, AND a 1:1 coaching call to propel you forward with a Breakthrough coach.

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