My Fool-Proof Guide to Build the Perfect Opening Message on Bumble (and all dating apps)

Let me take you back a few years:

I’m paralyzed by the opening message.

Especially when I stumble upon a “unicorn” guy who was cute and funny and into bluegrass music and social justice (totally my type).

This opening message will make or break whether or not he responds.

The stakes are high.

Better make my opening message witty and cute and flirty but also make it clear that I have a brain and want a relationship and a first date…

You know what comes next?

You guessed it, sending a message I thought was *perfect* only to get no response.


Cut to now.

I’ve had 2,000 phone calls with men when I was a matchmaker. I’m really good at asking the right questions, reading between the lines and gauging compatibility.

I’m delighted to tell you that I can be your OPENING MESSAGE ORACLE.

Today’s Brazen TV episode includes my fool-proof guide to creating the perfect opening message for you (and why you should do the counter-intuitive thing to get dates you crave).

I’m so excited to bring you this Brazen Q&A and to be your dating coach. Because even though there are more ways than ever to meet someone, the landscape has never been harder to navigate.

My friend, what is meant for you will not pass you by. I’ve got your back and am excited to be here in your corner.

Leave a comment below and let me know what your new go-to opening message will be!